Dating a muslim ma
Dating a muslim ma - Cccamporn
One thing you will notice is that Muslim women are more likely to date outside their faith as they get older.This has to do with age discrimination which is very evident in Muslim dating.
While men have their own social and cultural problems to bear (I would never want the responsibility that comes with being a first-borne Muslim son! They aren’t going to be judged as harshly for dating outside the Muslim faith, or for dating at all.
He is just using you until he can find a “good Muslim girl” to marry.
There is a lot of debate about whether it is halal or haram for Muslim women to date outside of the faith.
So, traditionally, marriages were arranged with the couple not having any unsupervised time together before the marriage – or possibly even meeting each other before the engagement.
Things are changing though, and especially in the Muslim immigrant communities.
They are taking part in Muslim matrimonial sites, speed dating, and other events. As Muslim woman Zeba Iqbal points out, this sounds a lot like western dating.
But there is one big difference: with non-Muslims, dating is just about meeting a special someone, and that meeting may or may not result in marriage.
Muslim women are obviously held to much higher standards of modesty than Muslim men, so her family is going to do a better job of keeping her under lock and key, well away from treacherous infidels.
And, if she did manage to meet a non-Muslim man, would she be able to overcome the social pressures which have been put upon her since birth and decide to date the guy?
By the age of 25, the “alarm bell” is ringing for Muslim women.
If she isn’t married by 30, meeting Muslim men becomes very difficult.
Islam may permit this, but the man’s culture and family may forbid it completely.