16 and 21 dating
16 and 21 dating - bebava sidei can pono indir
I think if I were the parents I'd sit the girl down for a serious talk about the consequences of sex, including the legal consequences for him.
So the extreme would probably be for a HS freshman to be dating a HS senior - then the next year you could have a college Sr. Note this was in the early 70s, and a frequent complaint of high school guys was that a lot of the girls were only interested in college men.
At the same time, some 21 year olds may just be very immature and ill-developed for their age, and it sounds like that may be the case with this kid.
It honestly sounds like to me they both might be emotionally at the same age, which makes it seem less "weird" to me, but at the same time I do feel the 21 year old should be more mature at his age--but he wouldn't be the first person at that age I've heard about/known who is still for all purposes a child.
I have some friends who have a 16 year old daughter. He has also never dated, and had never even kissed a girl. We suspected they liked each other, but they denied it.
He is very socially awkward and youngish, but a senior is college. Well over the months we noticed the 2 of them spending a lot of time together.
Meaning she isn't really allowed to make decisions on her own, she hasn't truly become an "adult." I'll be honest though, some people age and mature slower than others and some faster.
I think most 16 year olds aren't really ready to be in a serious relationship, and I think most 21 year olds who are interested in 16 year olds are interested because on some level (even if it isn't an intentional, thought out process) they recognize a 16 year old girl is probably much more easily manipulated than one their own age.
A 16-year-old is too young for any 21-year-old, regardless of gender or level of social skills.
IMO, sufficiently weird if I were the parent of the girl - heck, probably if I were his parent as well.
Sure, 5 years down the line a 5-year diff wouldn't matter. But I would likely share the guy's parents concerns of why he isn't seeing girls his own age.
And there might be a few instances of extremely worldly 16 y-os. And with a 16 y-o there is the whole statutory rape thing.
Where it becomes weird is the different stages of life the two are in.