Beginners guide to online dating
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I was a Filipina in Manila looking for a worthy pen-pal to exchange emails with.An experienced participant of long-term, long-distance relationships, I’ve never let proximity get in the way of true love and I’m a travel lover – so I signed up for OKCupid and didn’t limit myself. He really didn’t know anyone in his area and worked from home, so he had very limited opportunities to meet anyone new.
So there you have it – 5 easy ways to make your chosen dating site work for YOU.
And humour is a real ice-breaker – if you can make someone laugh, they’ll be more likely to want to contact you. Remember, 95% of people on dating sites only search for other members who have bothered to provide a picture of themselves.
You want to see what other potential partners look like so it stands to reason that other people will want to know what you look like too. Don’t just join a site and expect other people to contact you. OK, you’ve joined a dating site, you’ve searched for other members who fall within your specified categories, and you’ve been presented with a page of matching profiles.
Given the many opinions and – ahem – constant evolution of the Internet dating scene, who better than a success story to help guide you through the process, its potential – and many – pitfalls?
Before we get started, a hopeful word for skeptics and beginners.
Take my word for it, unless you take the five simple steps that I’m about to outline, you may as well do something more productive with your time than join a singles site. Don’t just say ‘Nice guy seeks nice girl for trips to the cinema’ – how boring does that sound?
What I’m about to say may sound obvious and rather simplistic, but you’d be surprised at how many people don’t bother doing the ‘obvious’. Take the time to say something about yourself, your lifestyle, your interests and the type of person you’re hoping to meet.
If your photo isn’t recent or isn’t a great likeness of you, you can always say so in your profile. Make sure you regularly search the database for people with whom you might be compatible and when you find someone you like the look or sound of, write to them immediately and tell them why you think you might be a good fit. You’re eager to fire off a few emails…but what on earth do you say in them?
Re-read the paragraph above about creating a great profile and apply the same rules to the first email that you send to another member.
Epic emails of a thousand words each turned into daily text chats on Skype.
Then voicemail mp3s sent by email (because we were still too chicken to talk face-to-face, in real time). Fact: If you meet someone you can talk to every day and every night and still find the energy to email five times a day and not get sick of each other, then that’s probably a great sign.
And remember to sound happy, upbeat, fun and confident; if you’re miserable about your recent breakup, then keep it to yourself!